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Monday, October 13, 2014

Yes, again.

Naturally, there were many things in need of correction in the English translation of the "Relatio post disceptationem." Here is my version, keeping in mind it's a work in progress and I may go back and fix anything I didn't catch the first time. Later I'll post my own thoughts on the Synod.


Synod 14 - Eleventh General Assembly: "Relatio post disceptationem" of the General Rapporteur, Card. Péter Erdö, 13.10.2014

[Unofficial translation]


Part I
[The] Listening: the context and challenges to the family
The socio-cultural context
The relevance of emotional affective life
Pastoral challenges

Part II
The gaze on Christ: the Gospel of the Family
The gaze on Jesus and gradualness in the history of salvation
The family in God’s salvific plan
The discernment of values present in wounded families and irregular situations
Truth and beauty of the family and mercy

Part III
Discussion: pastoral perspectives
Proclaiming the Gospel of the family today, in [the] various contexts
Guiding couples on the path in preparation for marriage matrimony.
Accompanying the first years of married life
Positive aspects of civil unions and cohabitation
Caring for Healing wounded families (separated couples, the divorced who have not remarried, the divorced and remarried)
Welcoming [There is no exact translation, but it means something between “welcoming” and "embracing" -J.] homosexual persons
The transmission of life and the challenge of declining birthrate
The challenge of education and the role of the family in evangelization


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1.  During the prayer vigil held in St Peter’s Square on 4 October 2014 in preparation for the Synod on the family, Pope Francis evoked, in a simple and concrete manner, the centrality of the family experience of family in the lives of all: “Evening falls on over our assembly. It is the hour at which one willingly joyfully returns home to meet gather [or “join”] at the same table, in the depth of thick with affection, of the good that has been done accomplished and received, of the encounters which warm the heart and make it grow, [of] good wine which hastens anticipates [in the sense of “prefigures”] in the days of man the unending feast without setting [in the sense of “closure,” as in “the setting of the sun"]. It is also the weightiest hour for one who finds himself face to face [literally, “you-to-you”] with his own loneliness, in the bitter twilight of shattered dreams and broken plans; how many people trudge through the day in drag their journeys [of life] through the blind alley of resignation, of abandonment, even resentment rancor: in how many homes the wine of joy has been less plentiful run out, and therefore, also the zest — the very wisdom — for life […]. Let us make our prayer heard for one another For some and for others [i.e., “for all these different kinds of people”] this evening, we are their voices with a prayer, a prayer for all”.

2. The source womb of joys and trials, of deep profound affections and of relations at times wounded, the family is truly a “school of humanity” (“Familia schola quaedam uberioris humanitatis est”, Vatican Council II, Constitution on the Church in the Modern World, Gaudium et Spes, 52), of which we are strongly advised [In Romance languages the passive voice is often preferable, something generally frowned upon in English, leading to translation headaches. –J.] we are in great need. Despite Notwithstanding the many signals of crisis in the institution of the family in various contexts of the “global village”, the desire for family remains alive, especially among the young, and is at the root of this is the motive for the Church’s need to proclaim tirelessly without rest and with profound conviction the “Gospel of the family” entrusted to her with the revelation of God’s love in Jesus Christ.

3. The Bishop of Rome called upon invited the Synod of Bishops to reflect upon the situation reality of the family, decisive and valuable, in its Extraordinary General Assembly of October 2014, a to later deepen the reflection which will then be pursued in greater depth in the Ordinary General Assembly scheduled to take place in October 2015, as well as during the full intervening year between the two synodal events. “The convenire in unum around the Bishop of Rome is already an event of grace, in which episcopal collegiality is made manifested in a path of spiritual and pastoral discernment”: thus Pope Francis described the synodal experience, indicating its tasks in the dual process of listening to both the signs of God and the history of mankind and in the resulting dual consequential and unique fidelity which follows.

4. In the light of the same discourse remarks we have gathered together the results of our reflections and our dialogues in the following three parts: listening, to look at the situation of the family today, in the complexity of its lights and shade shadows; looking, our gaze fixed on Christ, to re-evaluate think anew with renewed freshness and enthusiasm what the revelation transmitted in the faith of the Church tells us about the beauty and about the dignity of the family; and discussion in [an] encounter with the light of the Lord Jesus to discern the ways in paths with which the Church and society can renew their commitment to the family.

First part

Listening: the context and challenges to the family

The socio-cultural context

5. Current anthropological and cultural changes today influences all aspects of life and requires an analytic and diversified approach [in the sense of "focus"], capable to discern of taking the positive forms of individual freedom liberty. It is necessary to be aware of highlight the growing danger represented by an exasperated individualism that distorts denatures family bonds and ends up considering each component of the family as an isolated unit island, leading in some certain cases to the prevalence of an idea of the subject formed constructed according to his [or her] own wishes desires, which are assumed as an absolute right].

6. The most difficult greatest test for families in our time is often solitude [There is no exact translation; it means something like “isolated desolation.” –J.], which destroys and gives rise to a general sensation of impotence in relation to the when facing a socio-economic situation that often ends up crushing them. This is due to growing precariousness in the workplace that is often experienced as a true nightmare, or due to too heavy taxation [Did you catch that? –J.] that certainly does not encourage young people toward marriage.

7. Some There exist [other] cultural and religious contexts which pose particular challenges. In [some] African societies the practice of polygamy remains still rules, along with, in some traditional contexts, the custom of “marriage in stages”. In other contexts the practice of “arranged marriages” persists. In countries in which Catholicism is a minority religion, there numerous are many the mixed marriages with all the attendant difficulties that these may lead to in terms of legal form, the education of children and mutual reciprocal respect from the point of view of religious freedom, but also with the great potential that derives from the encounter between the differences in faith that these histories of family life present. In many contexts, and not only in the West occidental [ones], the practice of cohabitation before marriage, or indeed cohabitation not orientated towards assuming the form of an institutional bond, is [becoming] increasingly widespread [literally, “diffused” or “disseminated.”].

8. Many are the children who are born outside marriage, especially in certain countries, and there are many of these who subsequently grow up with just one of their parents or in an enlarged or reconstituted family context. The number of divorces divorced [persons] is growing and it is not a rare to encounter cases case in which decisions are it is an option taken solely on the basis of economic factors of an economic nature. The condition of women still needs to be defended and promoted, as not a few situations of internal violence within in the family are not rare recorded. Children are frequently the object of contention disputes between parents, and the children are the true victims of family breakdown wounds [literally, “lacerations”]. Also societies riven affected by violence due to war, terrorism or the presence of organized crime experience deteriorating family situations. Furthermore, Migration is also represents another sign of the times, to be faced and understood in terms of the burden of consequences for family life.

The relevance of emotional affective life

9. Faced with the social framework outlined delineated above, a greater need is encountered among individuals to take care of themselves their own person, to know their inner being to have interior knowledge, and to live in greater harmony with their emotions and sentiments, seeking a relational quality in emotional affective life. In the same way, it is possible to encounter a widespread generalized desire for family accompanied by the search for oneself. But how can this attention tension be cultivated and maintained [in the sense of “balancing opposite forces”] to the care for oneself be cultivated and maintained, alongside between self-care and this desire for family? This Here also is a great challenge for the Church too. The individualistic danger of individualism and the risk of living selfishly in an egotistical key [as in “musical key’] are significant relevant.

10. Today’s The current world appears to promote value limitless affectivity, seeking to explore all its aspects components, including the most complex. Indeed, the question of emotional affective fragility is very current: a narcissistic, unstable or changeable affectivity do which does not always help the subject to reach a greater maturity to be reached. In this context, couples are often sometimes uncertain and hesitant, struggling to find ways to grow. Many are those who tend to remain in the early stages of emotional and sexual life. The crisis in the couple destabilizes the family and may lead, through separations and divorce, to serious consequences for adults, children and society as a whole, weakening the individual, and the social bonds. The demographic decline in population not only creates determines a situation in which the alternation succession of generations is no longer assured, but over time also risks leading to economic impoverishment and a loss of hope in the future.

Pastoral challenges

11. In this context the Church is aware warns of the need to offer a meaningful word of hope and meaning. It is necessary to set out have as a point of departure from the conviction that man comes from God and that, therefore, a reflection able to reframe propose the great questions on the meaning of being human existence, may find fertile ground in humanity's most profound expectations. The great values of marriage and the Christian family correspond to the search that distinguishes traverses human existence even in a time marked by individualism and hedonism. It is necessary to accept people in their concrete being, to know how to support sustain their search, to encourage the wish desire for God [This could also be read as “desire for God.” –J.] and the will to feel fully part of the Church, also on the part of those who have experienced failure or find themselves in the most diverse desperate situations. This requires demands that the doctrine of the faith, the basic fundamental content of which should must always be made increasingly better known, be proposed alongside with mercy.


The gaze upon Christ: the Gospel of the Family

The gaze upon Jesus and gradualness in the history of salvation

12. In order to “walk ensure our steps among contemporary challenges, the decisive condition is to maintain a fixed fixing one’s gaze on Jesus Christ, to pause halt[,] in contemplation and in adoration of His Face. ... Indeed, every time we return to the source of the Christian experience, new paths and undreamed unimaginable [literally “unthought-of”] of possibilities open up” (Pope Francis, Address of 4 October 2014). Jesus looked upon the women and the men he [has] [This is a key difference. In the original translation, the sense is of “Bible stories” but the original carries the sense of Jesus meeting people up to the present. –J.] met with love and tenderness, accompanying their steps with patience and mercy, in proclaiming the demands of the Kingdom of God.

13. From the moment that the order of creation is determined by [the] orientation towards Christ, it becomes necessary to distinguish[,] without separating[,] the various levels through which God communicates the grace of the covenant to humanity. Through By reason of the law of gradualness (cf. Familiaris Consortio, 34), typical of proper to divine pedagogy, this means interpreting reading the nuptial covenant in terms of continuity and novelty newness, in the order of creation and in that of redemption.

14. Jesus Himself, referring to the primordial plan for the human couple, reaffirms the indissoluble union between man and woman, while understanding that “Moses permitted you to divorce [Other Biblical translations use the verb “repudiate” instead. –J.] your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning” (Mt 19,8). In this way, He shows how divine condescension self-emptying always accompanies the path of humanity, directing it towards its new beginning, [but] not without [first] passing through the Cross.
The family in God’s salvific plan

15. Since, by their commitment to mutual acceptance and with the grace of Christ betrothed couples promise fidelity to one another and openness to life, they acknowledge [also, possibly, “recognize”] as constitutive elements of marriage the gifts God offers them, taking their mutual responsability [sic] task seriously, in His name and before the Church. Now, in faith it is possible to assume [as in “assume control”] the goods [the original is closer to “assets”] of marriage as commitments best maintained with the help of the grace of the sacrament. God consecrates love between spouses and confirms its indissolubility, offering them help in living in to live the fidelity and openness to be open to life. Therefore, the gaze of the Church turns not only to the couple, but to the family.

16. We are able to distinguish three fundamental phases in the divine plan for the family: the family of origins, when God the creator instituted the primordial marriage between Adam and Eve, as a solid foundation for the family: he created them male and female (cg. Gn 1,24-31; 2,4b); the historic family, wounded by sin (cf. Gn 3) and the family redeemed by Christ (cf. Eph 5,21-32), in the image of the [Most] Holy Trinity, the mystery from which every true love springs. The sponsal nuptial covenant, inaugurated in with creation and revealed in the history of between God and Israel, reaches its fullest expression fullness with Christ in the Church. 

The discernment of values present in wounded families and in irregular situations

17. In considering consideration of the principle of gradualness in the divine salvific plan, one asks we ask ourselves: what possibilities are given to have those married couples who experience the failure of their marriage, or rather How it is possible to offer them Christ’s help through the ministry of the Church? In this respect, a significant hermeneutic key comes from the teaching of Vatican Council II, which, while it affirms that “the only Church of Christ exists in the Catholic Church” also recognizes that “although many elements of sanctification and of truth are found outside of its visible structure ... these elements, as gifts [properly] belonging to the Church of Christ, are forces impelling toward Catholic unity” (Lumen Gentium, 8).

18. In this light, the value and consistency of natural marriage must first above all be emphasized. Some ask themselves whether the sacramental fullness of marriage does not exclude the possibility of recognizing [some] positive elements even the imperfect forms that may be found outside this nuptial situation such a reality, which are in any case ordered in relation to it. The doctrine of levels of communion, formulated by Vatican Council II, confirms the vision of a structured way of participating in the Mysterium Ecclesiae by the baptized persons.

19. In the same, perspective, that we may consider could call inclusive, the Council opens up the horizon for appreciating the positive elements present in other religions (cf. Nostra Aetate, 2) and cultures, despite their limits and their insufficiencies (cf. Redemptoris Missio, 55). Indeed, From looking at the in the direction of human wisdom present in these it [The original refers to the family, the translation makes other religions/cultures the subject. This strikes me as very important. –J.], the Church learns understands how the family is has been universally considered as the necessary and fruitful form of human cohabitation. In this sense, the order of creation, in which the Christian vision of the family is rooted, unfolds historically, in different cultural and geographical expressions.

20. Realizing the need, It therefore, for becomes necessary [to have a] spiritual discernment with regard to cohabitation, civil marriages and divorced and remarried persons, it is the task of the Church to recognize those seeds of the Word that have spread beyond its visible and sacramental boundaries. Following the expansive gaze of Christ, whose light illuminates every man (cf. Jn 1,9; cf. Gaudium et Spes, 22), the Church turns respectfully with respect to those who participate in her life in an incomplete and imperfect way, appreciating [in the sense of “appraisal”] more the positive values they [may]contain rather than their any limitations and shortcomings faults.

Truth and beauty of the family and mercy

21. The Gospel of the family, while so long as it shines thanks in to the witness of so many families who live coherently with coherence their fidelity to the sacrament, with their mature fruits of authentic daily everyday sanctity must also nurture those seeds that are yet to mature, and must care for heal those trees that have dried up and wish beg not to be neglected.

22. In this respect sense, a new dimension of today’s family pastoral consists of accepting grasping [in the sense of "being cognizant of"] the reality of civil marriage and also cohabitation, taking into account making [clear] their due differences. Indeed, when a union reaches a notable level of stability through a public bond, is characterized by deep affection, responsibility with regard to offspring, and capacity to withstand tests, it may be seen as a germ [In the sense of “seed.” –J.] to be accompanied in accompany the development towards the sacrament of marriage. Very often, however, cohabitation is established not with a view to a possible future marriage, but rather without any intention of establishing an institutionally-recognized relationship.

23. Imitating In accordance with Jesus’ merciful gaze, the Church must accompany with attention and care her most fragile sons and daughters, marked by wounded and lost love, with attention and care, restoring giving them trust and hope to them like the light of a beacon in lighthouse of a port, or a torch carried among the people to light the way for those who are have lost their direction or find themselves in the midst of the storm.

Part III

The discussion encounter: pastoral perspectives

Proclaiming the Gospel of the family today, in various contexts

24. The Synod dialog has allowed an agreement on some of the more urgent pastoral needs to be entrusted to being made concrete realization in the individual local Churches, in communion cum Petro et sub Petro.

25. The announcement proclamation of the Gospel of the family is an urgent issue for the new evangelization. The Church has to must carry this out make it a reality with the tenderness of a mother and the clarity of a teacher (cf. Eph 4,15), in fidelity to the merciful kenosis of Christ. The truth is incarnated in human fragility not to condemn it, but to cure it.

26. Evangelizing is the shared responsibility of all God’s people, each according to his or her own ministry and charism. Without the joyous testimony of spouses and families, the announcement, even if correct, risks being misunderstood or submerged by the ocean of words that is a characteristic of our society (cf. Novo Millennio Ineunte, 50). On various occasions the Synodal Fathers underlined that Catholic families are called upon to be, themselves, the active subjects of all the pastoral of the family.

27. It will be decisive to highlight the primacy of grace, and therefore of the possibilities that the Spirit gives in the sacrament. This is about letting it be known that making [people] experience the Gospel of the family that is a joy that «fills the hearts and lives» one’s whole life, because in Christ we are «set free from sin, sorrow, inner emptiness, and loneliness» isolation.”(Evangelii Gaudium, 1). In the light of the parable of the sower (cf. Mt 13,3), our task is to cooperate in the sowing: the rest is God’s work. We must not forget that the Church that preaches about the family is a sign of contradiction.

28. For this reason, what is required is a missionary conversion: it is necessary not to stop at an announcement that is merely theoretical and has nothing to do with people’s real problems. It must not be forgotten that the crisis of faith has led to brought about a crisis in matrimony and the family and, as a result, the transmission of faith from parents to children has often been frequently interrupted. Confronted by In the face of a strong faith, the imposition of certain cultural perspectives that weaken the family and matrimony is of no importance avail.

29. Conversion has, above all, to be that of language so that this might prove to be effectively meaningful significant. The announcement proclamation is about letting it be experienced that the Gospel of the family is the response to the deepest expectations of a the human person: to his or her dignity and it’s the full realization in reciprocity and communion. This is not merely about presenting a set of regulations that which is normative but about putting forward values, responding to the need of those for these, who find themselves which is noted today even in the most secularized countries.

30. The indispensable biblical-theological study is to be accompanied by dialog, at all levels. Many insisted on a more positive approach to the riches contained in diverse religious experiences, while not being blind to silent about the difficulties. In the diverse cultural realities the possibilities should first be grasped welcomed and in the light of them the limits and radicalizations should be rejected.

31. Christian marriage cannot only be considered as a cultural tradition or social obligation, but has to be a vocational decision taken up with the proper preparation in an itinerary of faith, with mature discernment. This is not about creating difficulties and complicating the cycles of formation, but of going deeply into the issue and not being content with theoretical meetings or general orientations [In the sense of “suggestions.” –J.].

32. The need was has been jointly referred to declared for a conversion of all pastoral practices from the perspective of the family, overcoming the individualistic points of view that still characterize it. This is why there was a repeated insistence on renewing in this light the training of presbyters and other pastoral operators agents, through a greater involvement of the families themselves.
33. In the same way, the necessity was underlined for an evangelization that denounces clearly with sincerity the cultural, social, and economic factors; for example, the excessive room space given to market logic, that prevents an authentic family life, leading to creating discrimination, poverty, exclusion, and violence. For this reason a dialog and cooperation has to be developed with the social structures, and lay people who are involved in cultural and socio-political fields should be encouraged exhorted and supported.

Guiding [betrothed] couples on the path in of preparation for marriage

34. The complex social reality and the challenges that the family is called upon to face today to deal with require a greater undertaking commitment from the whole Christian community for the preparation of those who are about engaged couples to be married. As regards With respect to this necessity the Synodal Fathers agreed to underline the need for a greater involvement of the entire community privileging the testimony of the families themselves, as well as a rooting of the preparation for marriage in the path of Christian initiation, underlining the connection between marriage and the other sacraments. In the same way, The necessity was also highlighted for specific programs for preparation for marriage that are a true experience of participation in the ecclesial life and that study closely the diverse aspects of family life.
Accompanying the early years of married life
35. The early years of marriage are a vital and delicate period during which couples grow in the awareness their conscientiousness of the challenges and meaning of matrimony. Thus the need From this point [comes] the requirement for a pastoral accompaniment that goes beyond the celebration of the sacrament. Of great importance in this pastoral is the presence of experienced couples with experience. The parish is considered the ideal place for expert couples to place themselves at the disposal of younger ones. Couples need to be encouraged towards a fundamental welcome It is necessary to animate in [these] couples with an attitude fundamentally of reception of the great gift of children. The importance of family spirituality and of prayer needs is to be underlined, encouraging couples to meet gather regularly to promote the growth of their spiritual life and of [their] solidarity in the concrete demands of life. Meaningful Significative liturgies, devotional and Eucharistic practices and the Eucharist celebrated for families, were mentioned as vital in favoring evangelization throughout the family.
Positive aspects of That which is positive with civil unions and cohabitation
36. A new sensitivity in today’s pastoral [practice] consists in positively grasping [in the sense of "recognizing"] the positive reality of civil weddings and, while having pointed out our recognized the differences among the various types of cohabitation. It is necessary that in the ecclesial proposal, even while clearly when presenting the ideal with clarity, we [can] also indicate the [any] constructive elements in those situations that do not yet or no longer correspond to that such an ideal.
37. It was also noted emphasized that in many countries an “an increasing number of couples live together ad experimentum, in unions which have not been religiously without marriage that has been neither canonically or civilly recognized” (Instrumentum Laboris, 81). In Africa this occurs especially in traditional marriages, agreed between families and often celebrated in different stages. Faced by these situations, the Church is called on to be “the house of the Father, with doors always wide open […] where there is a place for everyone, with all their problems the life [burdens] they shoulder.” (Evangelii Gaudium, 47) and to move towards go encounter those who feel the need to take up again renew their path of faith, even if it is not possible to celebrate a religious canonical marriage.
38. In the West as well Also in the West there is an increasingly large continuous growth in the number of those who, having lived together for a long period of time, ask to be married celebrate their marriage in the Church. Simple cohabitation is often a choice inspired by a the general [societal] attitude, which is opposed contrarian [when it comes] to institutions and definitive undertakings commitments, but also while waiting for a secure existence existential security (a steady job and income). In other countries common-law marriages are very numerous, not because of a rejection of Christian values as regards the family and matrimony, but, above all, because getting married is a luxury, so that material poverty encourages pushes people to live in common-law marriages. Furthermore even in such unions it is possible to grasp authentic family values or at least the wish for them. Pastoral accompaniment should always necessarily must start from these positive aspects.
39. All these situations have to be dealt with approached in a constructive manner, seeking to transform them into opportunities to walk towards the fullness of marriage and the family in the light of the Gospel. They need to be welcomed and accompanied It is a matter of welcoming and accompanying with patience and delicacy. With a view to this as the endgame, the attractive [In the sense of “attracting people.”] testimony of authentic Christian families is important, as subjects for the evangelization of the family.
Caring for Healing wounded families (the separated, the divorced who have not remarried, the divorced who have remarried)

40. What rang out clearly Resonating in the Synod was the clear necessity for courageous pastoral choices. Reconfirming forcefully the fidelity to the Gospel of the family, the Synodal Fathers, have warned about the urgent need for new pastoral paths, that begin with take off from the effective reality of familial fragilities, recognizing that they these are, more often than not, are more “endured suffered” than freely chosen with full liberty. These are diverse situations that are diverse because of due to personal as well as or cultural and socio-economic factors. It is not wise to think of unique exclusive solutions or those solutions inspired by a logic of “all or nothing”. The dialog and meeting debate that took place in the Synod will have to continue in the local Churches, involving their various diverse components, in such a way that the perspectives that have been drawn up outlined might find their full maturation in the work of the next Ordinary General Assembly. The guidance of the Spirit, constantly invoked, will allow all God’s people to live the fidelity to the Gospel of the family as a merciful caring for all situations of fragility.

41. Each damaged wounded family first of all should first be listened to with respect and love, becoming companions on the journey as Christ did with the disciples of the road to Emmaus. In a particular way the words of Pope Francis apply in these situations: «The Church will have to initiate everyone – priests, religious and laity – into this ‘art of accompaniment,’ which teaches us to remove our sandals before the sacred ground of the other (cf. Es 3,5). The pace of this accompaniment must be steady and reassuring We must give our [accompanying] walk the healing rhythm of [neighborly] proximity, reflecting our closeness and our with a respectful and compassionate gaze which also heals, liberates and encourages growth maturing in the Christian life» (Evangelii Gaudium, 169).
42. Such discernment is indispensable for the separated and divorced. What needs is to be respected above all is the suffering of those who have endured suffered separation and divorce unjustly. The forgiveness for the injustice endured is not easy, but it is a journey that grace makes possible. In the same way it needs to be is always to be underlined that it is indispensable to assume take responsibility [literally “take charge”] in a faithful and constructive way the consequences of separation or divorce on the children: they must not become an “object” to be fought over of contention and the most suitable means need to must be sought so that they can get over the trauma of the family break-up division and grow up in the most serene way possible.
43. Various Fathers underlined the necessity to make the recognition of cases of nullity more accessible and flexible. Among the propositions were the abandonment of the need for the double conforming sentence; the possibility of establishing an administrative means under the responsibility of the diocesan bishop; a summary process to be used in cases of clear [literally, “notorious”] nullity. According to authoritative propositions, the possibility should then ought to be considered of giving weight to the faith of those about to be married being a relevant [factor] in terms of the validity of the sacrament of marriage. It needs is to be emphasized that in all these cases it is about the ascertaining of the truth over the validity of the obstacle bond.
44. As regards making more agile the procedures [governing] matrimonial suits, the speeding-up of the procedure, [as] requested by many, as well as the preparation of a sufficient number of operators [pastoral] workers, clerics and lay people, dedicating themselves to this, requires an it would ask an increase in the responsibilities of the diocesan bishop, who in his diocese might charge a specially duly trained priest who would be able to freely offer the parties advice counsel on the validity of [their] marriage.
45. Divorced people who have not remarried should be invited to find, in the Eucharist, the nourishment they need to sustain them in their state. The local community and pastors have ought [or “are”] to accompany these people with solicitude, particularly when there are children involved or they find themselves in a serious theirs is a grave situation of poverty.
46. In the same way the The situations of the divorced who have and remarried demands a careful requires attentive discernment and an accompaniment full of respect, avoiding any language or behavior attitude that might make them feel discriminated against [In Italian/Spanish this is meant in the sense of “singled out.”]. For the Christian community looking after to take care [literally, “charge”] of them is not does not presuppose a weakening of its the faith and of its testimony to the indissolubility of marriage, but rather it expresses precisely its charity in its caring.
47. As regards the possibility of partaking of accessing the sacraments of Penance and the Eucharist, some [Pay close attention. This is a summary of what Bishop X said and what Bishop Y replied. –J.] argued in favor of the present regulations current discipline because of their its theological foundations, others were in favor of a greater opening on very precise conditions when dealing with it is a matter of situations that cannot be resolved without creating new injustices and suffering. For some [of the participants], partaking of eventual access to the sacraments might occur were it must be preceded by a penitential path – under the responsibility of the diocesan bishop –, and with a clear undertaking commitment in favor of the children. This [said some participants] would not be a generalized possibility, but the fruit of a discernment applied on a case-by-case basis, according to a law of gradualness, that takes into consideration is to have present the distinction between state of sin, state of grace and the attenuating circumstances.
48. Suggesting limiting themselves to only “spiritual communion,was questioned by more than to not a few Synodal Fathers gave rise to some questions: if spiritual communion is possible, why not allow them to partake in is it not possible to access the sacrament? As a result a greater theological deepening was requested starting with from the links between the sacrament of marriage and the Eucharist in relation to the Church-sacrament. In the same way, [the understanding of] the moral dimension of the problem requires further consideration must also be deepened, listening to and illuminating the consciences of spouses.
49. The problems relative to mixed marriages were frequently raised have been present in the interventions of the Synodal Fathers. The differences in the matrimonial regulations disciplines of the Orthodox Churches creates serious poses grave problems in certain contexts to which have to be found suitable responses adequate answers must be given [but always] in communion with the Pope. The same applies to is valid for inter-religious marriages.
Welcoming homosexual persons
50. [Individual] Homosexuals persons have gifts and qualities to offer to the Christian community: are we capable of up to welcoming these people such persons [i.e., those who wish to contribute to a Christian community. –J.] , guaranteeing to them a fraternal space in our communities? Often they wish to encounter a Church that offers them a welcoming home. Are our communities capable of providing that up to doing so, accepting and valuing evaluating [Kind of a big difference, I think. –J.] their sexual orientation [Note, not their sexual activities. –J.], without compromising Catholic doctrine on the family and matrimony?
 51. The homosexual question of homosexuality leads to calls for a serious reflection on how to elaborate realistic paths of affective growth and human and evangelical maturity integrating [i.e. not setting aside -J.] the sexual dimension [as taught by the Church]: it appears therefore presents itself as an important educative educational challenge. The Church furthermore affirms that unions between people of the same sex cannot be considered on the same footing equivalent as matrimony between man and woman. Nor is it It is also unacceptable to [even] desire that pressure be brought to bear on pastors or that international bodies make financial aid dependent conditional on the introduction of regulations norms inspired by gender ideology.
52. Without denying the problematic moral problems [dimensions] connected related to homosexual unions it has to be noted taken into consideration that there are cases in which mutual aid support to the point of sacrifice constitutes a precious valuable support in the life of the partners [such] unions. Furthermore, the Church pays special attention to the children who live with couples of the same sex, emphasizing reiterating that the needs [this is not an exact translations, it means something between “needs” and “demands.” –J.] and rights of the little ones must always be given first priority.
The transmission of life and the challenge of the declining birthrate
53. It is not difficult to notice to be aware of the spread of a mentality that reduces the generation of life to a variable of an individual’s or a couple’s plans projects. Economic factors Factors of an economic nature [Literally, “order”] sometimes have enough exert a weight sometimes sufficient to contribute to the sharp drop in the birthrate which weakens the social fabric, compromising the relationship between generations and rendering the view of the future less certain. Being open to life is an intrinsic requirement necessity of married love.
54. Probably here as well what is required is also in this sphere a realistic language is required that is able to start from begins by listening to people and acknowledging  and that also can give reasons for the beauty and truth of an unconditional opening to life as that something which human life love [!!! –J.] requires to be lived to its fullest. It is on this base that we can rest [In the sense of “structural support.”] an appropriate a proper [literally “adequate”] teaching regarding natural methods, which allow the living in a harmonious way and aware way conscious of the communication between spouses, in all its dimensions, along with generative responsibility. In this light, we should go back to the message of the Encyclical Humanae Vitae of Paul VI, which underlines the need to respect the dignity of the person in the moral evaluation of the methods of regulating birth control rates.
55. So Therefore, help is required to live affectivity, in the marriage bond as well, as a path of maturation towards maturity, in the evermore profound welcoming of the other [person] and in an ever-fuller giving. It has to be emphasized in this sense the need to offer formative paths that nourish married life and the importance of a laity that provides an accompaniment consisting made up of living testimony. It is undoubtedly of great help the example of a faithful and profound love made up of tenderness, of respect, capable of growing in with time and which in its concrete definitive opening to the generation of life allows us to creates the experience of a “transcendent mystery” [literally “mystery that transcends us].
The challenge of education and the role of the family in evangelization
56. The fundamental challenge facing which families find today is undoubtedly that of the educational one, rendered which becomes more difficult and complex by due to today’s cultural reality. What have to be considered must be taken into account are the needs and expectations of families capable of testifying in daily everyday life, places of growth, of concrete and essential transmission of the virtues that provide give form for to [human] existence.
 57. In this The Church can carry out a precious develop an important role in supporting families, starting from beginning with Christian initiation, through welcoming communities. What is asked of these, today even more than yesterday, in complex as well as mundane common situations, is to support parents in their educative undertaking educational commitment, accompanying their children, adolescents and young people [adults] in their growth through personalized paths capable of introducing them to the full meaning significance [literally “sense”] of life and encouraging bring forth [right] choices and responsibilities responsibility, [to be] lived in the light of the Gospel.
58. The proposed reflections put forward, the fruit of the Synodal dialog that took place in great freedom and a spirit of reciprocal listening, are intended seek to raise questions and indicate perspectives that will have to be matured and made clearer more precise by the reflection of the local Churches in the year that separates us from the Ordinary General Assembly of the Synod of bishops planned for October 2015. These are not decisions that have been made nor simply easy points of view. All the same Nonetheless, the collegial path of the bishops and the [requisite] involvement of all God’s people under the active guidance [literally, “action”] of the Holy Spirit will be able to lead us to find roads of truth and mercy for all. This is the wish hope that, from the beginning of our work, Pope Francis has extended to directed us, inviting us to the courage of in the faith and the humble and honest welcome from acceptance of the truth in charity.